My story is a little different. I'm not a wife or g'friend, I am an o/o, driver. Have been since I was 23 and not old enough for ins. Ran cross country for a few yrs, then started hauling rock around DFW, TX. Bought my little KW, land, mobile home, raised my daughter totally by myself. Bought my 359. Parked it when the oilfield went to pot and rock hauling was taken over by mex here. I was driving for a contractor, and on May 17 of 07 after we'd dumped our preloads I was wiping the rock off my tailgate and doing airbags and tarps when a car hit me while I was behind my trailer. A 23 yr old kid, 4 am sat morning, all he got was a ticket for failure to control speed. They did not drug or alcohol test him. He was gone before I was even loaded into the ambulance to careflight me to Parkaland hospital where a week later my left leg was amputated above the knee. 6 and half weeks in that hellhole, 3 and half weeks in-patient rehab and I finally got to go home. I have a prosthetic, but because there is soooo much scarring it is giving me a lot of problems. Since the kid, driving mom and pops car, didn't have ins I am up shit creek without the preverbial paddle. I did get workmans' comp, but that's done with. Got on SS but am not eligible for medicare till next yr. so am on my own for meds and etc. My story sucks. I love my 359 and sit in and cry a lot. I sold my rock trailers. I was lucky under the circumstances of the accident, but still sucks. I am dancing again and am thankful for that. I've drove a truck all my life and miss it soo much. But you have to admit trucking has not progressed in the yrs. The commercials show a life of luxury and seeing the USA out the windshield. I've done that and been there. I had good jobs, beautiful trucks, and even the last time I went back on the road I carried my 5 yr old daughter. I had it all.
So much of my story, not even sure if anyone's gonna read this..............rikki
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A real true story!!

The Folded Napkins

A Truckers Story

If this doesn't light your fire, your wood is wet!
I try not to be biased, but I had my doubts about hiring Stevie. His
placement counselor assured me that he would be a good, reliable busboy. But
I had never had a mentally handicapped employee and wasn't sure I wanted
one. I wasn't sure how my customers would react to Stevie.
He was short, a little dumpy with the smooth facial features and
thick-tongued speech of Downs Syndrome. I wasn't worried about most of my
trucker customers because truckers don't generally care who buses tables as
long as the meatloaf platter is good and the pies are homemade.
The four-wheeler drivers were the ones who concerned me; the mouthy college
kids traveling to school; the yuppie snobs who secretly polish their
silverware with their napkins for fear of catching some dreaded 'truck stop
germ' the pairs of white-shirted business men on expense accounts who think
every truck stop waitress wants to be flirted with. I knew those people
would be uncomfortable around Stevie so I closely watched him for the first
few weeks.
I shouldn't have worried. After the first week, Stevie had my staff wrapped
around his stubby little finger, and within a month my truck regulars had
adopted him as their official truck stop mascot.
After that, I really didn't care what the rest of the customers'
thought of
him. He was like a 21-year-old in blue jeans and Nikes, eager to laugh and
eager to please, but fierce in his attention to his duties. Every salt and
peppershaker was exactly in its place, not a breadcrumb or coffee spill was
visible when Stevie got done with the table. Our only problem was persuading
him to wait to clean a table until after the customers were finished. He
would hover in the background, shifting his weight from one foot to the
other, scanning the dining room until a table was empty. Then he would
scurry to the empty table and carefully bus dishes and glasses onto his cart
and meticulously wipe the table up with a practiced flourish of his rag.
If he thought a customer was watching, his brow would pucker with added
concentration. He took pride in doing his job exactly right, and you had to
love how hard he tried to please each and every person he met.
Over time, we learned that he lived with his mother, a widow who was
disabled after repeated surgeries for cancer. They lived on their Social
Security benefits in public housing two miles from the truck stop. Their
social worker, who stopped to check on him every so often, admitted they had
fallen between the cracks. Money was tight, and what I paid him was probably
the difference between them being able to live together and Stevie being
sent to a group home. That's why the restaurant was a gloomy place that
morning last August, the first morning in three years that Stevie missed
work.
He was at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester getting a new valve or something put
in his heart. His social worker said that people with Downs Syndrome often
have heart problems at an early age so this wasn't unexpected, and there
was
a good chance he would come through the surgery in good shape and be back at
work in a few months.
A ripple of excitement ran through the staff later that morning when word
came that he was out of surgery, in recovery, and doing fine.
Frannie, the head waitress, let out a war hoop and did a little dance in the
aisle when she heard the good news.
Belle Ringer, one of our regular trucker customers, stared at the sight of
this 50-year-old grandmother of four doing a victory shimmy beside his
table.
Frannie blushed, smoothed her apron and shot Belle Ringer a withering look.
He grinned. 'OK, Frannie , what was that all about?' he asked.
'We just got word that Stevie is out of surgery and going to be okay.'
'I was wondering where he was. I had a new joke to tell him. What was the
surgery about?'
Frannie quickly told Belle Ringer and the other two drivers sitting at his
booth about Stevie's surgery, then sighed: 'Yeah, I'm glad he is
going to be
OK,' she said. 'But I don't know how he and his Mom are going to
handle all
the bills. From what I hear, they're barely getting by as it is.' Belle
Ringer nodded thoughtfully, and Frannie hurried off to wait on the rest of
her tables. Since I hadn't had time to round up a busboy to replace Stevie
and really didn't want to replace him, the girls were busing their own
tables that day until we decided what to do.
After the morning rush, Frannie walked into my office. She had a couple of
paper napkins in her hand and a funny look on her face.
'What's up?' I asked.
'I didn't get that table where Belle Ringer and his friends were
sitting
cleared off after they left, and Pony Pete and Tony Tipper were sitting
there when I got back to clean it off,' she said. 'This was folded and
tucked under a coffee cup.'
She handed the napkin to me, and three $20 bills fell onto my desk when I
opened it. On the outside, in big, bold letters, was printed 'Something For
Stevie'.
'Pony Pete asked me what that was all about,' she said, 'so I told
him about
Stevie and his Mom and everything, and Pete looked at Tony and Tony looked
at Pete, and they ended up giving me this.' She handed me another paper
napkin that had 'Something For Stevie' scrawled on its outside. Two $50
bills were tucked within its folds. Frannie looked at me with wet, shiny
eyes, shook her head and said simply: 'truckers.'
That was three months ago. Today is Thanksgiving, the first day Stevie is
supposed to be back to work.
His replacement worker said he's been counting the days until the doctor
said he could work, and it didn't matter at all that it was a holiday. He
called 10 times in the past week, making sure we knew he was coming, fearful
that we had forgotten him or that his job was in jeopardy. I arranged to
have his mother bring him to work. I then met them in the parking lot and
invited them both to celebrate his day back.
Stevie was thinner and paler, but couldn't stop grinning as he pushed
through the doors and headed for the back room where his apron and busing
cart were waiting.
'Hold up there, Stevie, not so fast,' I said. I took him and his mother
by
their arms. 'Work can wait for a minute. To celebrate you coming back,
breakfast for you and your mother is on me!' I led them toward a large
corner booth at the rear of the room.
I could feel and hear the rest of the staff following behind as we marched
through the dining room. Glancing over my shoulder, I saw booth after booth
of grinning truckers empty and join the procession. We stopped in front of
the big table. Its surface was covered with coffee cups, saucers and dinner
plates, all sitting slightly crooked on dozens of folded paper napkins.
'First thing you have to do, Stevie, is clean up this mess,' I said. I
tried
to sound stern.
Stevie looked at me, and then at his mother, then pulled out one of the
napkins. It had 'Something for Stevie' printed on the outside. As he
picked
it up, two $10 bills fell onto the table.
Stevie stared at the money, then at all the napkins peeking from beneath the
tableware, each with his name printed or scrawled on it. I turned to his
mother. 'There's more than $10,000 in cash and checks on that table,
all
from truckers and trucking companies that heard about your problems. 'Happy
Thanksgiving.'
Well, it got real noisy about that time, with everybody hollering and
shouting, and there were a few tears, as well.
But you know what's funny? While everybody else was busy shaking hands and
hugging each other, Stevie, with a big, big smile on his face, was busy
clearing all the cups and dishes from the table.
Best worker I ever hired.
Plant a seed and watch it grow.
At this point, you can bury this inspirational message or forward it
fulfilling the need!
If you shed a tear, hug yourself, because you are a compassionate person.
Well.. Don't just sit there! Send this story on! Keep it going, this is a
good one!

AMEN!!!!!!!
GOD BLESS!!!!!!!
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